March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
Inexplicably, I'm not the only Xness competitor whose essay features my hometown, "the Jersey Shore of the Oregon Coast."
Emily Podwoiski's essay on Des'ree's "I'm Kissing You" examine's love's beauty & brutality, its ability to levitate us, & to break us apart
marchxness.com#/1stround-go...
05.03.2026 18:52
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3/5, 1st Round: (4) Lisa Loeb vs (13) Lee Ann Womack β March Sadness 90s Edition
"Iβm past the geography of those boys..."
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"However, there are peripheral gifts in the photo album."
πππ Seeing all of these iterations of Amy Barnes pleases me to no end.
06.03.2026 03:09
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Surely we can get more than 29 votes for Skid Row &
βWasted Time feels like an emotional rarity: a song about friendship & a song in which a straight man sings intimately & passionately about his feelings for another straight manβ¦just anguish and worry distilled down into questions without answersβ
06.03.2026 03:17
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I cannot decide!!
06.03.2026 03:09
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I am in awe seriously
06.03.2026 03:08
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MARCH SADNESS 90S EDITION DAY 5 HALFTIME(ISH) SCORES
Belle & Sebastian 51, Lauryn Hill 50
Desβree 99, Goo Goo Dolls 79
Ben Folds Five 77, Skid Row 29
Lisa Loeb 65, Lee Ann Womack 27
Vote by 9am AZ time 3/6 at marchxness.com
06.03.2026 02:02
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Bluesky needs better handle search honestly⦠I keep not finding the right writers for @marchxness.bsky.social to tag. Anyway read @grossman.bsky.social on Lisa Loeb!
06.03.2026 03:07
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Ok this is commitment
06.03.2026 03:05
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Belle & Sebastian is my favorite band. I've never ever ever heard anyone refer to BLASTING "Fox in the Snow" (or any other B&S song), and I absolutely fucking adore this, Andrew Schumacher Bethke.
Ya did the Scots proud with this one.
marchxness.com#/1stround-hi...
@aesb.bsky.social
06.03.2026 02:43
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Booooo
06.03.2026 03:04
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Lawsuit Accuses Amy Griffin, Best-Selling Author, of Invasion of Privacy
A woman contends that Amy Griffinβs story of being sexually abused, as described in βThe Tell,β was based on assaults that she herself suffered.
Amy Griffin, a best-selling memoirist, was sued on Wednesday by a former classmate who contends that Griffinβs story of being sexually abused β as she described in her book, βThe Tellβ β was based on assaults the classmate herself suffered at their Texas middle school in the 1980s.
06.03.2026 00:40
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
ββToo bad weβre both too old for him now,β I text back.β
I love everything about. Emily Podwoiskiβs @marchxness.bsky.social essay about Desβreeβs βKissing You,β including this sick burn of Leonardo DiCaprio.
marchxness.com#/1stround-go...
05.03.2026 22:10
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3/5, 1st Round: (5) Lauryn Hill vs (12) Belle and Sebastian β March Sadness 90s Edition
"Joining the queer community in midlife, I discovered that the heteropessimism of Miseducation's love songs has more than one possible solution."
So much love for Jendi Reiter on Lauryn Hill β€οΈβπ₯
05.03.2026 22:40
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3/5, 1st Round: (5) Lauryn Hill vs (12) Belle and Sebastian β March Sadness 90s Edition
"I suspect that much of this has to do with how B&S as a group, and Murdoch as a lyricist, understood just how delicious melancholy was, and how the place of sadness was always better as a place you built in your mind."
- Andrew Schumacher Bethke on Belle & Sebastian (w/ a timely bio)
05.03.2026 22:48
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
βAnd so, if I am not blameless, I might have to settle for being forgiven. So, I do. I forgive the girl that I was.β
The way that Cicily Bennion builds up to this ending in her @marchxness.bsky.social essay on βBrickβ is amazing.
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05.03.2026 21:39
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
βNOW you can pivot from Disney kid to sexpot, from harmless reality TV himbo to fascist political monster, from porn star to first lady. You can pivot and pivot until Words no longer mean Things.β I am so into @meganc.bsky.social βs @marchxness.bsky.social on Skid Row. marchxness.com
05.03.2026 21:51
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
βI have written for this tournament six times, and nearly every single essay has, on some level, been about my fear of actually knowing myself.β Itβs always a pleasure to read Moira McAvoyβs @marchxness.bsky.social essays & this yearβs on βIrisβ is no exception.
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05.03.2026 21:57
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haaaa this got flagged with a βrudeβ label by the mods
05.03.2026 21:43
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YOU DON'T IS THE ANSWER IT IS ALL XNESS SUCK IT AWP
05.03.2026 21:30
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βMusic feels like the ultimate mirror; if I listen to something on a loop long enough, dig through the lyrics intelligently enough, venerate the idea of self-reflective naval gazing enough, I will be granted permission by myself to see myself.β Read @moirajo.bsky.social on the yearning of Iris.
05.03.2026 21:24
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
βItβs NOT a romance, itβs a tragedy! they say, as if both canβt be true.β A @marchxness.bsky.social thesis, and a line from Emily Podwoiskiβs essay on Desβree, Romeo + Juliet, and sand dollars (the final image is a knockout) marchxness.com#/1stround-go...
05.03.2026 21:20
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Austin Grossman is doing something cool with βStayβ but the photos! the Boyfriend Book! in @amygcb.bsky.socialβs Lee Ann Womack homage are also what @marchxness.bsky.social was made for.
05.03.2026 21:03
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βThere are sad songs for every nuance of romantic heartbreak, but there arenβt so many about the ways friendship can break your heartβ @meganc.bsky.social on Skid Rowβs lament for Steven Adler slots nicely with my GnR research this tournament but donβt sleep on Cicily Bennionβs slow burn on Brick.
05.03.2026 21:01
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I have known the pain of a first-round loss. You left it all on the court!
05.03.2026 20:10
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A fanfuckingtastic way to kick off AWP. @jaimefountaine.bsky.social had me believing all kinds of scandal about Peter Tork.
05.03.2026 20:09
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
The main thing I am learning from this year's @marchxness.bsky.social bracket is that my personal definition of "sad" apparently does not align with anyone else's. Anyway, it's fun, the essays are terrific, you should play. Visit marchxness.com to read and vote.
05.03.2026 16:06
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If you're enjoying March Sadness, you will also enjoy this book.
05.03.2026 16:19
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My essay on Skid Row's neglected masterpiece, suburban basements, Dial MTV, and whether Liking Things really matters is up today! @marchxness.bsky.social
05.03.2026 16:30
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March Sadness 90s Edition
A yearly March Madness-style tournament of essays about songs we love (and occasionally loathe)
MARCH SADNESS 90S EDITION DAY 4 SCORES, 45β to play:
Mineral 75, RHCP 57
No Doubt 83, Gillian Welch 79
Hootie 133, Morphine 129
Counting Crows 136, Savage Garden 32
Lot of game left here but these are INTERESTING SCORES.
Vote by 9am AZ time 3/5 at marchxness.com
05.03.2026 15:20
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How am I supposed to focus on AWP events when there are new @marchxness.bsky.social essays to read?!
05.03.2026 15:27
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