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Finding a relationship isn't like unlocking an achievement. You have to support and maintain it! Let me help. Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!

I Tried To Fulfill My Girlfriend's Fantasy And Everything Went Wrong! They thought a threesome would be a fun, sexy adventure. Now his girlfriend feels weird and uncomfortable and he's afraid it's his fault.

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No, Micro-Cheating Isn't A Thing Every day it seems as though there's a new "trend" in the world of dating that's meant to panic us all. Micro-cheating is the latest dating panic... but is there anything to this? Or is micro-cheating just amplifying our anxieties and damaging the trust in our relationships?

From The Archives: No, Micro-Cheating Isn’t A Thing

Why You Shouldn’t Use AI in Your Relationships YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did

If you’re bad at flirting or talking to people, there’s only one way to get better: Keep being bad at it! 👏 Practice is the only way through.

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I Want To Feel Sexier. What Should I Do? He's a decent looking guy , but he wants to be SEXY. How can he be the hot, desirable man of his wife's Bridgerton-esque dreams?

From The Archives: I Want To Feel Sexier. What Should I Do?

...and now I'm increasingly tempted to write these like the new achievements in Dungeon Crawler Carl...

Image of a smartphone showing a romantic couple in silhouette against fairy lights in the background. Underneath a reminder notice says "SUBMIT A DATING ADVICE QUESTION!"

Finding a relationship isn't like unlocking an achievement. You have to support and maintain it! Let me help. Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove. com

I Tried To Fulfill My Girlfriend's Fantasy And Everything Went Wrong! They thought a threesome would be a fun, sexy adventure. Now his girlfriend feels weird and uncomfortable and he's afraid it's his fault.

NEW COLUMN: They thought a threesome would be a fun, sexy adventure. Now his girlfriend feels weird and uncomfortable and he’s afraid it’s his fault.

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I Tried To Fulfill My Girlfriend's Fantasy And Everything Went Wrong!

Now live for my Patrons, two tales of sex gone wrong! An attempt to fulfill a fantasy ends up causing trouble in paradise, and a fear that porn has made sex with another person an impossible dream... what can they do?

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I Tried To Fulfill My Girlfriend's Fantasy And Everything Went Wrong!

Now live for my Patrons, two tales of sex gone wrong! An attempt to fulfill a fantasy ends up causing trouble in paradise, and a fear that porn has made sex with another person an impossible dream... what can they do?

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How Can I Save My Best Friend From Her Husband? Her best friend left an abusive relationship... only to go right back to him years later. Is there any way to pull her out of this nightmare?

From The Archives: How Can I Save My Best Friend From Her Husband?

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #64 - The Secret To Finding The Perfect Gift For Her One of the biggest anxieties that can come up in a relationship - especially when in its early days is paradoxically seemingly the most simple:  How do you find the perfect, most romantic gift for your girlfriend or wife?

From The Archives: Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #64 – The Secret To Finding The Perfect Gift For Her

Don't forget, we're not just on YouTube, we're on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and everywhere else you find the pods to stuff in your earholes...

The Harsh Truth About Relationships YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did

If your relationships is built on lies, it’s already dead. Be yourself, use your own words! There’s a flavor for everyone.

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my first thought once it was made clear that Vic was sentient was "...is he aware when his program is terminated, or does he blink and he's back in the casino with new people?"

Like, the setup's fascinating but there're SO MANY DISTRESSING QUESTIONS TO BE HAD.

And then brings up all sorts of existential questions regarding a sentient holodeck character, including the fact that for the first time ever he has an actual *life*, not just memories of one that were programmed in...

Uh-oh! Worst person you know learned therapy words

Image of a smartphone showing a romantic couple in silhouette against fairy lights in the background. Underneath a reminder notice says "SUBMIT A DATING ADVICE QUESTION!"

Are you struggling with unclear signals? Not sure if you're reading the room properly? I can help you with that! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!

When Is It Time To STOP Asking Someone Out? The flirting is hot and heavy, the texting is wild, but every time he asks her for a date, he gets the brush off. At what point does he give up and move on?

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Image of a smartphone showing a romantic couple in silhouette against fairy lights in the background. Underneath a reminder notice says "SUBMIT A DATING ADVICE QUESTION!"

Are you struggling with unclear signals? Not sure if you're reading the room properly? I can help you with that! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!

When Is It Time To STOP Asking Someone Out? The flirting is hot and heavy, the texting is wild, but every time he asks her for a date, he gets the brush off. At what point does he give up and move on?

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POST MORTEM: Am I A Cheater or a Victim? (Doctor’s Note: This letter involves discussion of sexual assault.)  Every once in a while, I get a letter that requires more than the standard Ask Dr. NerdLove. Sometimes a reader has a situation that requires some in-depth examination to determine just what went wrong, where, how, and what could be done about it. These are what...Read more about POST MORTEM: Am I A Cheater or a Victim?

From The Archives: POST MORTEM: Am I A Cheater or a Victim?

When Is It Time To STOP Asking Someone Out?

Now live for my Patrons: The flirting is hot and heavy, the pics are spicy and she gets up in his business the instant he talks to another woman... but she never says yes to a date. When is it time to give up and move on?

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I Just Don't Know How To Talk To Girls! He was told to focus on his grades and get into a top college. Now he's lonely & has no friends. How does he learn how to talk to girls and make friends?

From The Archives: I Just Don’t Know How To Talk To Girls!

Image of a smartphone showing a romantic couple in silhouette against fairy lights in the background. Underneath a reminder notice says "SUBMIT A DATING ADVICE QUESTION!"

Are you struggling with unclear signals? Not sure if you're reading the room properly? I can help you with that! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to docDr. NerdLove!

When Is It Time To STOP Asking Someone Out? The flirting is hot and heavy, the texting is wild, but every time he asks her for a date, he gets the brush off. At what point does he give up and move on?

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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: When Is It Time To STOP Asking Someone Out?

World bad but bills due, so...

Next Tuesday, March 10th, is the release of BUTTERFLY EFFECTS, the fifteenth (!!) book in my InCryptid series of urban fantasy chaos adventures!

Re-upping this: we’ll be at the San Antonio public library PopCon this Saturday. It’s a free pop culture, comic, art, games, and book con.

That was an alien one right? And the main character was half alien?