If you had told me 10 years ago that I’d be getting interviewed as a “fisting coach,” I probably would’ve laughed.
Hehe… Sniffies just published a conversation about the work I do training bottoms.
Fun one. 👊💙
A lot of people trying to train depth are pushing harder when they should be understanding the body better.
I recorded a 50-minute webinar breaking down the anatomy and mechanics behind depth training.
Replay is now available: flareforwardmethod.gumroad.com/l/depth-is-anatomical
Thank you! 💙
Amazing work you’re doing
If you had told me 10 years ago that I’d be getting interviewed as a “fisting coach,” I probably would’ve laughed.
Hehe… Sniffies just published a conversation about the work I do training bottoms.
Fun one. 👊💙
A lot of people trying to train depth are pushing harder when they should be understanding the body better.
I recorded a 50-minute webinar breaking down the anatomy and mechanics behind depth training.
Replay is now available: flareforwardmethod.gumroad.com/l/depth-is-anatomical
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One thing I’ve noticed that people underestimate in FF training:
How long tissue adaptation actually takes.
Your body is changing slowly even when progress feels invisible. 👊🏻
Too gay to lose.
One thing I’ve noticed that people underestimate in FF training:
How long tissue adaptation actually takes.
Your body is changing slowly even when progress feels invisible. 👊🏻
Something I’ve come to appreciate as a gay man in his 30s:
I’m a lot less interested in performing
and a lot more interested in real connection.
These days, I’d rather be alone than perform for people.
Something I’ve come to appreciate as a gay man in his 30s:
I’m a lot less interested in performing
and a lot more interested in real connection.
These days, I’d rather be alone than perform for people.
I feel you! Going from one hand to two is a big jump. 👊🏻
Quick question for fisters:
Have you ever hit a plateau where your progress just… stopped for a while?
Curious to know how long it lasted for you.
Field research. 😉
Quick question for fisters:
Have you ever hit a plateau where your progress just… stopped for a while?
Curious to know how long it lasted for you.
A lot of people ask me: “How do I take fist?!”
My honest answer: it’s really just about learning how to relax into intensity.
That’s the focus of my coaching sessions.
I offer virtual and in-person training. Feel free to check out my website for more info.✨
Riding the Nick Capra LG from Hankey’s Toys. 😉🤤
Here’s the full free clip: pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=69796848b906e
You know I never thought about fisting like this but duh of fucking course its like every other fucking bit of body training 🤦♂️
I’ve noticed that some people assume the goal of depth training is going “as deep as possible.”
Not quite.
I think the real skill is staying present while the intensity increases.
That’s where transformation happens. 👊🏻
Depth training doesn’t move in straight lines.
Progress includes:
• plateaus
• regressions
• recalibration periods
• breakthrough moments
This is normal physiology. 👊🏻
If you want a deeper framework for understanding the process, Anatomy of Depth walks through it step-by-step. It includes the Depth Check-Ins workbook to help you track your own training: www.flareforwardmethod.com/anatomy-of-depth
Depth training doesn’t move in straight lines.
Progress includes:
• plateaus
• regressions
• recalibration periods
• breakthrough moments
This is normal physiology. 👊🏻
If you think training people will bring quick and easy money, trust me… it won’t.
Doing this well takes patience, responsibility, and a genuine commitment to the people you’re guiding.
Over the last 2.5 years, quite a few FFolks have asked how they can start professionally training people.
It’s a hard question because my own path here has been super layered.
But one thing I’ve learned: if you don’t genuinely care about helping people train well, the work won’t last.
Anatomy of Depth is available here: flareforwardmethod.com/anatomy-of-depth
It’s International Sex Workers’ Rights Day.
My work is physical, emotional, and deeply intentional, and it requires presence, discernment, and a steady relationship w/my own boundaries.
That is real labor.
People who engage in this line of work deserve safety, autonomy, and structural protection.
It’s International Sex Workers’ Rights Day.
My work is physical, emotional, and deeply intentional, and it requires presence, discernment, and a steady relationship w/my own boundaries.
That is real labor.
People who engage in this line of work deserve safety, autonomy, and structural protection.
