bangin’ pixie demon

this is how i access bluesky

can anyone blame us for feeling this way when usually we face almost immediate rejection from at least one primary attachment (parents, partner, etc) as soon as we voice

i had counseling class this morning where the words “triggered,” “escalated,” and “privileged” were used, then shortly after heard a friend’s IT conf call where they used those exact same words but meant entirely different things

academia 🤝 business
jargon

and nothing we’re called can really parallel the n-word. i’d say tranny and shemale are actual slurs, whereas transsexual is not really a slur, but cis people should avoid it bc it has connotations that should be left to people w/in the trans umbrella

we moved to tg a couple of decades ago to avoid transmedicalism and gatekeeping, to provide a broader umbrella, acknowledge the privilege in accessing certain care. it has had a resurgence because it 1) clarifies marginalization, and 2) it’s funny.

galaxy brain: “nobody knows i’m a cunty transsexuelle”

getting that embroidered on silk panties using a really over the top script font

i personally do not give a fuck what you have or haven’t done to transition either, you can use it for the bit who cares

the reason a lot of us like the word transsexual is because cis people know to keep it out of their mouths. it’s Our Word.

i would never say it in academia because then the cis would start saying it, cant have that

i think that was also around the time someone made that shirt that said “nobody knows im a transsexual”

esqueer’s comment is hilarious to me bc i think of a lot of us like “transsexual” specifically because it does not sound respectable

you know what? it is a blessed feeling to be a trans woman feeling like an old hag among a bunch of twenty-something trans women. how fucking lucky lucky are we to feel old?

omg theres a third one???

dr marsha linehan, creator of dbt, and the only linehan i respect

marsha talks about it in her memoir, and its sort of like… learning to have acceptance and make peace with a worse case scenario, rather than rehearsing to avoid it

(it still wouldnt let me reply idk)

dbt has a thing called coping ahead which treads the line in between

table: columns: past, future rows: healthy (learning), unhealthy (looping) past healthy: reflecting future healthy:planning past unhealthy: ruminating future unhealthy: rehearsing

@brandysaurian.bsky.social have a thing i made

This is a Steely Dan song

drawing I did for fun based on a cover from a 1948 Fritzi Ritz comic

bro cmere sit with me, no man i mean /sit/, like zazen. wait bro u dont kno? my guy we’re sitting in the discomfort the emptiness the nothingness and oneness of all being, bro you gotta get awakened with us, cmon bro

will remember jay as the person who deleted lexi alexander and link, worked hard to cut palestinians off from their one chance at survival, ignored the ongoing abuse of Black and trans users, and then when confronted about the whole thing said 'waffles'. and for that fugly no caesars shirt.

✨😌✨

lmao i’m doin so bad tonight tho

ya girl in front of a pool table holding a cue stick, wearing a black halter top and signature trucker hat with 45rpm record adaptor

would you let her break

jsyk i have bpd, we’re not going out to the car, we’re gonna stay inside and cause a huge scene, make sure to wear some big hoop earrings and sandals so you can make a show of taking them off before things get real