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I do not consent. (she/her) Dreamer of Weird Dreams, Writer, Technowitch Crone Elder, Chronically Underestimated Chaos Maven, Frequently Decribed as 'Problematic' Still dealing with the aftermath of a tragic personal loss

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You can get there.

I did. It's marvelous. I'm in better physical shape and stronger now than I was 20 years ago.

07.03.2026 09:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The Tikka Masala spice in my cabinet gets a LOT of use, especially when I'm making a nice curry. 😜

07.03.2026 08:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes and no.

07.03.2026 07:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

You can 'get the drop on me' roughly between the hours of 5am to 9am every day, my usual sleeping hours.

07.03.2026 07:26 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Es tut mir leid, meinen freund. Versuche, tief durchzuatmen und sei gut zu dir selbst.

(Confession: I had to look up durchzuatmen.)

06.03.2026 09:58 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I have more than one, to be honest. lol

06.03.2026 09:53 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I have a number of friends where physical contact is just affection and caring, and NOT a sexual thing. A few are amazing huggers because they don't hold back, and we both know that's what it is and not the other stuff.

06.03.2026 09:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I think the real issue is they're self-limiting and compelled to put every situation into a particular 'box' or 'category.' And all too often, it's a presumption of "Is this a romantic relationship or not? No touching beyond a brief hug or handshake if it's the latter."

It's nonsense.

06.03.2026 09:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

YES! Exactly.

THANK you.

06.03.2026 02:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have had a great day in one of the best f*cking weeks I can remember, and I don't care who knows it or cares.

(I'm enjoying a late coffee and some ice cream somebody left behind in this fab Airbnb where I'm staying at the moment. Life is awesome.)

I'm posting this only because I felt like it.

06.03.2026 02:47 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have a major friend-crush and it's cool because I think she has one with me and that's what it IS. (I am most certainly NOT her type, ffs.)

Why do people gotta be dumb about stuff like this?

06.03.2026 02:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Seriously: F*ck this ignorant, insane, brain-damaged motherfucker.

You do NOT fuck with Dunkin' Donuts or the people who go there. Back east, I lived on that stuff for years, driving to work at 5am.

06.03.2026 02:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, absolutely. Guess they're trapped in the idea that holding hands with someone or having an arm around 'em necessarily requires that it be a 'romantic' situation.

Totally isn't the case. Sometimes it's just nice.

06.03.2026 02:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
There will be times when the struggle seems impossible. I know this already. Alone, unsure, dwarfed by the scale of the enemy. Remember this: Freedom is a pure idea. It occurs spontaneously and without instruction.
Random acts of insurrection are occurring constantly throughout the galaxy. There are whole armies, battalions that have no idea that they’ve already enlisted in the cause. Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.
And then remember this: The Imperial need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle. Oppression is the mask of fear.
And know this: the day will come when all these skirmishes and battles, these moments of defiance will have flooded the banks of the Empire’s authority and then there will be one too many. One single thing will break the siege. 
Remember this. Try.  

- Karis Nemek, Andor

There will be times when the struggle seems impossible. I know this already. Alone, unsure, dwarfed by the scale of the enemy. Remember this: Freedom is a pure idea. It occurs spontaneously and without instruction. Random acts of insurrection are occurring constantly throughout the galaxy. There are whole armies, battalions that have no idea that they’ve already enlisted in the cause. Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward. And then remember this: The Imperial need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle. Oppression is the mask of fear. And know this: the day will come when all these skirmishes and battles, these moments of defiance will have flooded the banks of the Empire’s authority and then there will be one too many. One single thing will break the siege. Remember this. Try. - Karis Nemek, Andor

Yes. Often more than we know.

05.03.2026 19:56 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I've long felt that 'Wayne' as a middle name is a cursed name (e.g. 'John Wayne Gacy'). That McMullin doesn't even take a breath or pause between 'Mark' and the rest of it? Not a good sign.

Should we be asking about his browser history and the crawlspaces under his home?

05.03.2026 19:48 πŸ‘ 289 πŸ” 19 πŸ’¬ 15 πŸ“Œ 1

Nu'Daq, it was NOT intended to be inserted... you know.

PLEASE, no. It's to be dispensed on crackers or similar, not up your...

I just can't. No, no, no, for all that's holy. Have mercy.

Waiter? I need, um, all the alcohol that was ever made please.

05.03.2026 05:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My pleasure and honest opinion, but you already knew that about me: I speak my mind. ;-) You have a talent, my friend.

04.03.2026 09:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely gorgeous photo, Gray. πŸ‘

04.03.2026 07:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

"Look man, it's not like we're gonna STOP you. But these things have rules. You have to yell 'Olly-olly-oxen-free!' before starting another bloody, unwinnable war as a distraction from continued revelations about your past sex crimes and everything else."

28.02.2026 17:41 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

One thing the Buttery Rancid Yam has never been is subtle.

28.02.2026 17:31 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ahem...

NOT EXCLUSIVELY, KATIE!!!

🀣

28.02.2026 17:07 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a woman 's feet are covered in flames while wearing a pair of high heels ALT: a woman 's feet are covered in flames while wearing a pair of high heels

SHOES, Katie. At the thrift store, look at the shoes!

No no no, not more boots. Shoes!

28.02.2026 05:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

He continues to betray his pudding-brained ignorance regarding who has to pay the tariff fees.

27.02.2026 21:48 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Each and every time, these increasingly persecuted trans folks will be *required* to out themselves, all but inviting cruel but perfectly legal discrimination and potentially worse.

27.02.2026 21:38 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's not just the car though. A DL (or the non-driving state-issued equivalent ID) is the form of ID most Americans will have and be required to produce in a wide variety of circumstances.

Rent a hotel room? They want ID. Open a bank account? ID required. Apply for job? Same, for background check.

27.02.2026 21:38 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Nice try, Will, but we already know you crashed the 1701-D on Viridian III. That's why the insurance premiums on your ship, the Titan, are so freakin' high.

You and LaForge have much to answer for.

27.02.2026 21:27 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Or people don't deserve it. Or suffering is noble and will prompt people to work harder or whatever.

When human needs are met, it actually costs far, far less than most believe and results in tremendous QoL improvements for everyone.

But the plutocratic bastard oligarchs won't let us have that.

27.02.2026 03:58 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's amazing how many quite modest 'quality of life' supports can vastly improve people's livesβ€”a guarantee of modest housing (and educational opportunities), healthcare, a small but guaranteed basic incomeβ€”actually produce a HUGE net benefit for society, yet all the excuses are that we can't.

27.02.2026 03:58 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Yessir! *salutes*

27.02.2026 03:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

omg... did she get fashion advice from someone who secretly hates her guts?

27.02.2026 03:27 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0