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@mindskills.substack.com

Expert Speaker, Coach and Trainer on Emotional Intelligence, Behavioural Change and Unconscious Bias

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The answer is: a chin!

05.03.2026 10:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

03.03.2026 17:16 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Eigentlich hatte ich ja gehofft, diesen alten Cartoon nie mehr posten zu kΓΆnnen. Nun ja. #trump #uswahl

06.11.2024 10:52 πŸ‘ 19 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

They are not the best and brightest anymore.

02.03.2026 00:47 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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02.03.2026 00:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I just had the honor of leading two very promising coaches through the EQ-i 2.0 certification. It's great to see people who are already great in the field of coaching and training to want to develop even further. The EQ-i 2.0 is a leading, scientifically validated Emotional Intelligence assessment.

01.03.2026 21:05 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

01.03.2026 00:13 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

01.03.2026 00:12 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

01.03.2026 00:12 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

01.03.2026 00:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

01.03.2026 00:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

24.02.2026 23:48 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

"I have always found it quaint and rather touching that there is a movement [Libertarians] in the US that thinks Americans are not yet selfish enough."

(Christopher Hitchens)

01.03.2026 00:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Solution aversion is the idea that if you don’t like a proposed solution for a problem, it’s a lot easier to deny that the problem is really a problem than it is to discuss the solution.

This explains a lot of really weird responses to real problems.

28.02.2026 14:35 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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ADHD, Creative Bursts, and the Myth of Consistency Not all productivity is linear.

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27.02.2026 22:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Doubt increases with intelligence.
Awareness of complexity is not incompetence.

27.02.2026 00:02 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Quiz question: What physical characteristic do humans have that apes do not?

26.02.2026 22:32 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Is there a danger that they might want to have anything to do with education?

26.02.2026 15:22 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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When Excellence Feels Ordinary: The Unconscious Competence Trap Unconscious competence leads to unconscious self-doubt

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25.02.2026 21:58 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, I do tend to put too much value on education as a cure-all, which it certainly isn't. It would be useful, though, for many of those people we are talking about to know how to deconstruct bad faith arguments, recognise fallacies and understand that morals are not a type of wall painting.

25.02.2026 09:01 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

24.02.2026 23:48 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

I disagree. There are so many people out there who are uneducated and lack a sense of agency that they crave someone to validate their prejudices and help them overcome their sense of inferiority. Without someone like Trump they would be unhappy, but harmless.

24.02.2026 23:13 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Trump has a pathological need to impress those who are richer than him.
That's why he is so easily manipulated by Putin, as he allegedly thinks that Putin is richer than Musk.

#trump #putin #fascism #resist

24.02.2026 08:59 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
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Negativity Bias: Why Your Brain Lies About Your Track Record Do you remember the good times?

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24.02.2026 08:58 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Anytime you hear "Draw your own conclusions", it's an appeal to go down the rabbit hole and search for info that confirms your prejudices.
Why? Because any silly thing can be found online.
And then we act as if a single data point is as valid as hundreds of responsible sources.

22.02.2026 22:00 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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From Team Member to Leader: The Praise Gap How do you know you've done a good job?

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22.02.2026 11:37 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The Invisible Rulebook That Keeps You Feeling Undeserving If this happens, then...

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21.02.2026 20:19 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I think I just added two more pages to the booklet... 😜

21.02.2026 10:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You make a fantastic point. Being told that it needs to be fluffed up makes me feel that it's not good enough and once it's fluffed up, it won't feel like my work anymore and I will feel like an imposter.

21.02.2026 09:59 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Why So Many Capable People Feel Like Frauds High achievement and low confidence.

Why so many capable people feel like frauds:

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20.02.2026 23:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0