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Sinclair Sexsmith

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kinky queer butch writer | http://writingspicy.com | http://dsplayground.com | http://sugarbutch.net/find-sinclair

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Missed the Tasting Menu erotica reading? No worries! Watch the full recording and enjoy powerful readings from some of the best queer writers. Hosted by Charis Books, this event is a must-see! πŸŒŸπŸ“š #QueerErotica #VirtualEvent #CharisCircle

08.03.2026 01:37 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Watch the Tasting Menu: A Queer Erotica Reading and discover new favorites in queer literature! Hosted by Charis Books. πŸ“šβœ¨ #QueerWriters #CharisBooks #Erotica

07.03.2026 01:03 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Experience the magic of the Tasting Menu: A Queer Erotica Reading! 🌈✨ Relive the night with Laura Antoniou, Kiki DeLovely, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Rose Knottyrotica, laura q, and Sinclair Sexsmith, hosted by Charis Books. Don't miss this unforgettable virtual event! #QueerLit #Erotica #CharisBooks

05.03.2026 02:08 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Sinclair’s 2026 Calendar: Online & In Person Workshops, Conferences, & More Here's where I'll be and what I'll be teaching β€”Β online & in person β€” in 2026! This page will be updated as things are added. Note: Patreon workshops in 2026 are in progress; I will be checking in wit...

I'm on a social media break until April.

I may still post here occasionally β€” I'm still teaching, check my calendar here: sugarbutch.net/2026/01/calendar/ β€”Β but mostly I will be off of bsky & IG until then.

see you in april!

23.02.2026 22:20 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Think AI sucks? So do porn creators.
(And you should always listen to sex workers.)

Thank you @cydhayes.bsky.social @sf.gazetteer.co for a tech spotlight from our perspectives. Quotes by myself and the brilliant @siridahl.com and @mikestabile.bsky.social of @fsc.bsky.social.

23.02.2026 22:14 πŸ‘ 36 πŸ” 12 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

there will be a replay available of this PHENOMENAL erotica reading soon, will send it out when I have it!

meanwhile, holy shit, it was one of the best readings I've ever been to or taken part of. such incredible readers & stories!!

23.02.2026 22:18 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

incredible!!

I saw Pillion over the weekend & have many many thoughts, still putting them together. can't wait to read more reviews of it from kinky folks, if you've seen any please send them my way!

23.02.2026 22:17 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

omg!! I did see the film but hadn't seen this plate yet, this is amazing thank you

23.02.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Forbidden Tickets | ONLINE: Writing Spicy: A Two Part Series Come join Sinclair Sexsmith, award winning kinky queer butch erotica writer, for some of the basics of writing erotica.

oh hey this starts TOMORROW! Writing Spicy 2-part workshop, online through wicked grounds. want to write more or better smut? there are still tickets left, come join us forbiddentickets.com/events/wicke...

23.02.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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oh heyyyyy this is on friday! Tasting Menu: Queer Erotica Reading - online, by donation, with Charis books!

with me, Laura Antoniou, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Kiki DeLovely, Rose Knottyrotica, & laura q!

RSVP here pls:
charisbooksandmore.com/event/2026-0...

09.02.2026 20:55 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
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oh heyyyyy this is on friday! Tasting Menu: Queer Erotica Reading - online, by donation, with Charis books!

with me, Laura Antoniou, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Kiki DeLovely, Rose Knottyrotica, & laura q!

RSVP here pls:
charisbooksandmore.com/event/2026-0...

09.02.2026 20:55 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

thanks!! it’s going to be great I think, what a lineup!

31.01.2026 00:25 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Tasting Menu: A Queer Erotica Reading Charis Books & More is the South's oldest independent feminist bookstore, celebrating radical and queer voices since 1974!

If I could, I would go to this kinky queer erotica reading
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thanks to @sugarbutch.net awesome newsletter for the info from Charis Books. Wish I could go πŸ–€πŸ–€

charisbooksandmore.com/event/2026-0...

28.01.2026 21:29 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

ben & matt going on a press tour without seeing heated rivalry is a major faux pas and I'm not interested in their movie anymore. read the room guys

20.01.2026 07:31 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

perhaps it's a really natural thing to expect, as the boomers age, and as stories center on the people taking care of their beloved elders

19.01.2026 10:35 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I started his & hers (on netflix), and I just finished Tourist Season by Brynn Weaver

I'm struck by how much dementia/alzheimer's is a common narrative in all sorts of stories I consume β€” from dark romance / serial killer 4 serial killer rom-com, to cop procedural dramas β€”Β is growing

19.01.2026 10:35 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

honestly perhaps the worst part about going through the Big Dark season in the PNW this particular year is that none of my friends are into heated rivalry the way that I am

19.01.2026 09:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

around 5pm today, friday, I thought: I have nothing going on tonight! I can rewatch 4,5,6, as I've been itching to do the last 5 nights. and now it's after midnight and I haven't, and I miss my boyfriends.

honestly I'm fascinated by the cultural phenomenon that is this show #heatedrivalry #rewatch

17.01.2026 08:47 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

why does it feel SO much dirtier to watch porn from my laptop instead of my phone?

17.01.2026 04:37 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

@kitrocha.com @mostlybree.kitrocha.com hey! we chatted once (on twitter I think) β€” I'm producing an online erotica reading soon and thought of you, can I DM you?

16.01.2026 23:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

@cupcakesinclair.com oh damn just this lil clip is so freakin πŸ”₯!! fuck!

16.01.2026 23:50 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

who's your favorite current smutty writers? (maybe ones that have a new book out??)

15.01.2026 22:41 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

@rdotspoon.bsky.social hey! can I DM you, or would you prefer I email you? I'd like to ask you to join an online erotica reading, if you'd be interested

15.01.2026 21:07 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

soo who’s got the #heatedrivalry edit of just the sex scenes? cuz you know max is taking all of those off of pornhub faster than you can say β€œteam of lawyers”

but I want to see it

13.01.2026 11:19 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A 35 year old letter to the editor, written by a very ballsy 15 year old, about the Rodney King verdict.

A 35 year old letter to the editor, written by a very ballsy 15 year old, about the Rodney King verdict.

Remembering today that having your heart broken is a necessary step on the path to becoming fully human. Whichever heartbreak is your first, it’s probably critical that a state break your heart so that you can develop a political imagination. If this is your first, I’m sorry and also welcome.

08.01.2026 22:33 πŸ‘ 12183 πŸ” 2495 πŸ’¬ 85 πŸ“Œ 118

will a canadian passport fix everything? NO of course not.

but could I possibly get over the US-canadian border more easily? could I stay there? maybe!!

it helps my panic to start making a plan.

08.01.2026 23:08 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

tons of us in the US have at least one ancestor from canada!

if you know much about your family's genealogy, you might already know, but if you don't, highly recommend looking into it, asking living relatives, and seeing what's possible.

working on my application. thank u great-great-granny pine!

08.01.2026 23:06 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

in case you haven't seen it, canada just passed a new law that changed citizen-by-birth nationality laws.

passed in Dec, Bill C-3 now says basically anyone with Canadian ancestry IS a canadian.

do your own research, I'm not an expert, but all of us americans should know about this & look into it

08.01.2026 23:06 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

To all the Americans now realize that their skin color will not protect from ICE brutality.

Welcome to the resistance.

08.01.2026 22:51 πŸ‘ 34 πŸ” 11 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

ahhhh I love this photo so much thank you 😍😍

08.01.2026 22:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0