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@ergot.dog

difference eternally returns music at: thisuserma.bandcamp.com @boddhosdaughter.bsky.social owner @rachel.supply wife

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also went out to silent hill and got my gf in the seat for the first time. she dumped it a few times but i’m really proud of her for just letting it fall instead of getting hurt trying to save plastic

12.03.2026 10:33 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

the bikeposting will continue!!

12.03.2026 10:33 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ’š

12.03.2026 10:29 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

. @rachel.supply if you were strong you’d be wheychel

28.02.2026 15:57 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

spinning is stopped and what must be done is happening. love wins

19.02.2026 07:17 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

everything is spinning still but wife is sweet and bike always says it loves me

17.02.2026 22:47 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

i’m really appreciative and also proud of her for understanding how much riding means to me still post-crash

17.02.2026 22:47 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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everything is spinning but i rode my bike today and my wife took this pic of me as i left

17.02.2026 22:47 πŸ‘ 12 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

it feels like it’s falling apart again.

15.02.2026 06:39 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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we are so back

05.02.2026 18:31 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

been really busy building it. it’s all going to pay off this month

02.02.2026 15:49 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

new ink

29.01.2026 17:02 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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29.01.2026 17:02 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

but it seems like home is so close

08.01.2026 18:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

thank u wife for the photos @rachel.supply

15.01.2026 17:44 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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15.01.2026 17:44 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

PANIC SELL EVERYTHING THE BANKS ARE OUT OF MONEY

12.01.2026 02:37 πŸ‘ 292 πŸ” 54 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 0

marx lived closer, historically, to soap being made at home, than he did to any of the good soaps, like olaplex,

09.01.2026 02:13 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

the PSA fixie is a harmful stereotype

09.01.2026 23:40 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

do it it’s the best decision you can make

09.01.2026 01:16 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

but it seems like home is so close

08.01.2026 18:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

the connections we made are all so fragile, and holding on too hard isn’t the best

08.01.2026 18:09 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

soon there will be two motorcycles as well

08.01.2026 18:07 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

happy cried at the thought that soon i’ll pull into my driveway and her car will still be there

08.01.2026 18:07 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

i want a bufferless foldyboy so bad

07.01.2026 18:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

guy bpd rules

06.01.2026 19:25 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Hi, I like having fun.

06.01.2026 15:19 πŸ‘ 134 πŸ” 15 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 2

It’s don’t kill yourself Jan 6th.

06.01.2026 11:14 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
brightwanderer
I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned "forever" into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like... if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it's a "failed" business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don't actually want to keep doing that, you're a "failed" writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it's a "failed" marriage.

The only acceptable "win condition" is "you keep doing that thing forever". A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a "real" friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a "phase" - or, alternatively, a "pity" that you don't do that thing any more. A fandom is "dying" because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it's okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success... I don't think that's doing us any good at all.

brightwanderer I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned "forever" into the only acceptable definition of success. Like... if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it's a "failed" business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don't actually want to keep doing that, you're a "failed" writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it's a "failed" marriage. The only acceptable "win condition" is "you keep doing that thing forever". A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a "real" friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a "phase" - or, alternatively, a "pity" that you don't do that thing any more. A fandom is "dying" because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things. I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it's okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success... I don't think that's doing us any good at all.

Wish I could internalize this

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