"How does any woman (and child) in Australia - or anywhere for that matter - deal with family law lawyers who benefit from the use of the PA model and want to keep it going?"
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Abuse rarely just stops when you leave. It often moves into a new phase, which can involve smear campaigns, stalking, threats, blackmail, financial abuse, false allegations, abusive parenting, and more! #PostSeparationAbuse
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Discover the reality of experiencing stalking: a personal story of control, abuse, and the journey to freedom. #stalking #postseparationabuse
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Leaving doesn’t always mean the abuse ends. It often just changes form.
#PostSeparationAbuse
Follow @zalisteggall.bsky.social who is significantly standing up against #financialabuse #FDV
and interested in innovative options.
#postseparationabuse #MVAW #DV
Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
This clipping is from Tualatin Life (Oct–Nov 2025), and it captures something I’ve had to learn the hard way: survival is not just escaping the violence. It is surviving what comes after.
#DomesticViolenceAwareness #PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl #SurvivorVoices #HealingAfterAbuse
Legal abuse is real. Abusers often weaponise the family court system to maintain control and punish survivors post-separation.
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
Trapdoor
Witches
Parishes
Villages
And #PostSeparationAbuse
When Truth bursts your bubble…
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Inside a Locked House in the Snow
There's a hidden Wardrobe
Thread 🧵
#PostSeparationAbuse
#DomesticViolence
#EconomicAbuse
#FinancialAbuse
#CoerciveControl
#Trauma
#Recovery
#Healing
#Identity
#ArtsBasedTherapy
#CreativeMethods
#LanguageMatters
After separation, abusers often try to sabotage the relationship between their partner and their children by badmouthing their partner or spreading lies. They might manipulate the children to take their side, causing emotional conflict and loyalty issues. 😪 #PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers use the legal system to harass & control. They file frivolous lawsuits, drag out court cases, or weaponize custody battles to drain your energy & finances. Legal abuse can last for years post-separation, causing deep financial & emotional stress.
#PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers often weaponize the children to exert control even after the relationship ends. This is one of the most dangerous and painful tactics survivors face.
#PostSeparationAbuse
Snow-capped peaks
#16Days
Climb Every Mountain
#16DaysOfActivism2025
#OrangeTheWorld
Follow Every 🌈
We forget to ask:
What happened to Julie after the Family Court?
#EconomicAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
@seacharity.bsky.social @nicolajanesharp.bsky.social
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My abusive ex-husband just filed for a court hearing because I said no to our 9-year-old playing 18+ video games and watching 18+ movies. A whole legal battle… because I protected our child.
#PostSeparationAbuse #FamilyCourt
Technology-Facilitated Abuse and Coercive Control: Post-Separation Harm in the Family Courts
Day 8 #16days #16daysofactivism #16daysofactivismagainstgenderbasedviolence
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Interesting that when we were stalked, & begged for help in Collin County I was told to just write down every single time he came to our house. We have gotten zero help for our #domesticviolence situation. Yes stalking is DV, #coercivecontrol, #postseparationabuse. www.cbsnews.com/texas/news/n...
Leaving doesn’t always mean the abuse ends. It often just changes form.
#PostSeparationAbuse
What do truly evil people do when they really want to hurt you? They go after your child.
#familycourtawarenessmonth
#postseparationabuse
Abusers often exploit children as a means to exert control, turning them into tools for manipulation and emotional pain. Survivors share their stories of how their partners weaponized their own children to maintain dominance. #PostSeparationAbuse
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And today, when women speak about coercion at home or in the lethal aftermath of separation, they’re still told not to make a scene. Too angry. Too personal. Too early.
#CoerciveControl #PostSeparationAbuse #ViolenceAgainstWomen
PLEASE DONATE & SHARE!! This money goes directly to parents who need it for emergency expenses while fighting for their children’s safety in family court. It also funds awareness efforts of #domesticviolence and #postseparationabuse.
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How long does it take to recover from #coercivecontrol ?
How long does #PostSeparationAbuse last?
How Long is a piece of string?
Recovery Histories seek to frame impact & well being in new ways - a paradigm shift informed by Power
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If you are staying at #LabourConference for one more night, do join us at our panel at 18:15, it will be an important conversation #postseparationabuse
We need more detailed adjustments to this law in relation to post separation abuse.
#postseparationabuse #psychologicalabuse
#manipulation #systemicabuse #financialabuse #data #technical #corruption #legal #manipulation #lies #IT
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Learn about the insidious tactics of systems abuse and how abusers exploit legal, bureaucratic, and institutional structures to control their victims. #PostSeparationAbuse
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So you hold back, you swallow your words, you carry the weight of always being the “bigger person.”
It’s the safest choice, but it’s also exhausting in ways words can’t really capture.
#PostSeparationAbuse
Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support. #PostSeparationAbuse
Save the date! October 7th 2025:
#Familycourt #HealthJustice #Global #postseparationabuse
Join us for a free online ground-breaking Health Justice Conference focussing on global insights into the family courts and health/human rights impacts for victim survivor women and children